Too Shy to Say Hi

by Shannon Anderson (Author) Hiroe Nakata (Illustrator)

Too Shy to Say Hi
Reading Level: 2nd − 3rd Grade

Making friends can be tough, but this rhyming picture book will help navigate difficulties of shyness and social anxiety.

Shelli used to be pretty content in her little world, thinking that her pet friends with feathers, fins, and fur were enough. Her bird would keep her company at home, her fish would hideaway in his cave, and her dog was the social butterfly of the neighborhood. But now, Shelli is determined to try to make friends with kids at school. Readers will relate as Shelli takes brave steps toward breaking out of her shell. I

ncludes a Note to Parents and Caregivers by Elizabeth McCallum, PhD, with more information about shyness and social anxiety.

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School Library Journal

PreS-Gr 1--This didactic attempt at bibliotherapy collapses under the weight of its awkward rhyming text and unclear goal. Shelli walks her dog daily, but unlike him, is too shy to interact with people. She decides to change and reaches out to a classmate. After being welcomed to sit, she suggests playing at recess, which works out well. Happy, and proud of her success, she acknowledges that "I know I have a ways to go/ but I'm peeking out of my shell." The forced rhyming text is a poor choice here.The scansion wavers throughout, weakening the story. Some vocabulary is a poor fit with Shelli's first-person narration. Nakata's illustrations, appearing to be watercolor, are appealing, with round-faced, simple characters, lots of movement, and effective use of color to depict mood. The initially blue backgrounds change to a warm yellow as Shelli reaches out. Shelli, who is white, has reddish, flyaway hair in pigtails and an expressive face which shows a variety of emotions. Her new friend has brown skin and curly brown pigtails. There is a mix of single and double-page full-bleed spreads and spot art, effectively creating motion and feeling. The book includes a two-page note for parents about shyness and social anxiety. VERDICT Despite its good intentions, this slightly muddled attempt to introduce shyness and social anxiety to preschoolers fails to merge its light rhyming text with the topic.--Amy Lilien-Harper, Wilton Lib., CT

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Review quotes

"Nakata's wispy, light brush strokes match the emotional impact of Shelli's uncertainty, shimmering and delicate across the page... Echoes the inner thoughts some anxious children may have, hopefully making them feel less alone."— "Kirkus Reviews"
Shannon Anderson
Shannon Anderson has taught first grade through college level and loves to write books for children and teachers. She was named one of the Top 10 Teachers who inspired The Today Show and was chosen as the JC Runyon Person of the Year for her work writing and speaking about social and emotional issues for kids. She lives in Indiana. Visit shannonisteaching.com, on Facebook @authorShannonAnderson, on Twitter @Shannonteaches.

Hiroe Naka graduated from the Parsons School of Design. Illustrations from her first children's book were chosen for the Society of Illustrators Annual Exhibition. She lives in Tokyo, Japan.
Classification
Fiction
ISBN-13
9781433831584
Lexile Measure
-
Guided Reading Level
-
Publisher
Magination Press
Publication date
March 20, 2021
Series
-
BISAC categories
JUV039060 - Juvenile Fiction | Social Themes | Friendship
JUV039050 - Juvenile Fiction | Social Themes | Emotions & Feelings
JUV002140 - Juvenile Fiction | Animals | Insects, Spiders, etc.
Library of Congress categories
Friendship
Schools
Bashfulness
First day of school
Bashfullness

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